Mistress...Am I Gay? Well... let's look at the facts: You only get hard for men. You’ve tried to get hard for women, but to no avail, chalking it up to being nervous because she is so fucking hot or blaming those pain-in-the-ass condoms making it totally impossible for you to get a raging hard on so you can fuck that pussy. Lets get real shall we? Because it is not rocket-science that's for sure and if you think about it, the truth regarding whether you are gay or not lies in the simple fact: You only get hard for men. It’s very easy for you to get naturally hard for men. Your cock becomes hard as a steel rod, when you think about being intimate with men; you only get hard for men.