This is the closest thing you're going to get to a "friendly reminder." Currently, I don't think you're doing enough. You're not spending enough, not going on enough clip binges, or sending enough tributes. I'm finding myself disappointed in you and that's the last thing you want if you expect to stick around. So this is a little reminder to spend, a little reminder that you need to give more. I'm not wasting my time on men who don't actually want to pay. So spend or get lost.