Let me clear up a misconception really quickly, jerking it for me does not equal submission. You want to think that watching a clip, cumming, and coming back when your horny again is being an obedient sub but that's not it. True submission requires dedication and actual obedience. It means following instructions just because they came from me, no matter how badly you want otherwise. It means doing and not questioning. I'll ease you in, nothing too extreme to start off with. It might cost you, it might degrade you, and it might hurt a little.... but this is just a look at what submission might require.