Question 1: Mistress Ophira is a very unique domme. While many dommes are intense and dangerous seeming, Ophira has a distinctly laid back, hippie girl sexy vibe. She seems like a girl you could hang out with and listen to music and feel relaxed and safe around. And that's a huge mistake on your end. Once she gets your naked balls in front of her, she will show you no mercy, and any feelings of safety will be totally obliterated.