You've invited me over for another date to chat and get to know each other - I emphasize how badly I want to know more about you. I feel like we can't have a good bond if we don't share some of our secrets.... I can tell you're nervous about that so I ask if you want to smoke and pass you the pen. You take a hit but the next thing you know you're knocked out! I wake you up and you seem confused about the evil look on my face. See, I actually passed you some powerful stuff to make you blurt out your secrets SUPER EASILY!!!!! Nothing can stop you from telling me all the info I need to know to have you wrapped around my finger and doing anything I say!