Will I respond to the thousands and thousands of dollars you spend on me? or will you never gain my approval or attention? a woman like me is an investment. Not one where you send a little bit here and there, but one where you continue to work on to raise higher and higher. I am the biggest and most valuable investment in your life! The stock market isn't as fun as taking this risk. Investing in all of my endeavors and contributing to my wealth and value, but possibly never gaining. That's the beauty of it! gain and reward for you is the feelings you have when you empty your bank. The feelings you have when you contributed something significant to my life. The feelings you have when you add value to me, while diminishing any of your own that still stands.