You approach the most popular girl in school and ask if you want to hang out. Ellie laughs in your face and curses you out, why do you think you're worthy of her time? She tells you to get lost, until she realizes she might have a good use for you. She wants you to eat your own load for her, thats the only way she will give you a second of her attention. You oblige and get humiliated in the process.