Google defines a incel as: An incel is a member of an online subculture of people who define themselves as unable to get a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one. Every morning you wake up just to look at the other side of your bed…empty. While all of your “friends” grow into sexy, powerful men. You’re still a fat, loser who is very aware of the fact that no woman would interact with you. You have a childish thought that you acting like you don’t want/need anyone will allow you to focus on other things, like being successful. Hence why you’ve turned into a little beta male who enjoys paying women who are definitely out of your league. It gives you a thrill you’ve never had, a surge of energy. You crave my attention. Forever!