I think you've been measuring your penis wrong this whole time. While you think its 4 inches its actually only 3. You need to measure underneath to get an accurate insert-able length.. Honestly though that extra inch didn't do much for you to begin with. When ladies have such huge cocks to choose from why would we ever want yours. I personally would never fuck a beta like you.. I mean look just how much bigger this BBC dildo is compared to yours! Length and girth way bigger than your little penis!