It's your first time coming into My office and you are hoping to finally get the help and validation you so desperately crave. As your councilor, it is My job to provide a safe space for you to work through your most difficult feelings and learn how to overcome personal obstacles in a healthy and productive way. However... it is also My job to be honest- lying to yourself is unhealthy and it's very important that I make that clear- honesty must come before feelings in this environment. your problem? you have concerns about your current relationship with your Girlfriend and you are hoping that My advice can help you with your troubles. you are delighted to find out that I specialize in relationships and are genuinely curious when I mention My focus on FLR, or Female Led Relationships. During this first session, I'm going to encourage you to let your GF take the lead in ALL things so that you can see that your natural place is that of a follower. Trust Me, I'm a professional.