There is no hope for you, you’ve missed those years where it was acceptable to be a virgin. Where it was acceptable to be inexperienced and excusable that you had been the only one who didn’t get pussy yet. You were not as old as you are now, there was still a little bit of hope that you would grow into an alpha man but at this point in your life, it’s safe to say that you have missed all the chances to to achieve a higher state of manhood. So here we are, your purpose in life still has become pleasing women. Just not in the way you might have hoped for years and years ago. Your purpose is not to please women in a physical way, by making them have mind blowing orgasms. Your purpose has become to selflessly make them happy by handing over your paycheck. Obviously you don’t need it to take someone out on a date.