"I've brought the group together today to discuss sex in later life. I'm sure we'll have a great variety of interesting opinions ranging from our youngest members of staff right through to our almost-retirement age employees, and I'm sure this will be excellent training for us when we start asking members of the public for their stories next week. I'll begin by telling you about my experiences as a woman in her mid-forties, experiencing the dating scene again after being single for a long time..." Dressed in high heeled gold court shoes, a short white pencil skirt and cashmere sweater, I don't realise that as I get into my story, I flash my tiny gold panties to everyone repeatedly as I cross and uncross my legs, put my feet up on the seat, the table, and generally fidget. I'm so busy with my narrative that I have no idea I'm giving everyone an eyeful!