Did you know that what we fetishize are usually our biggest fears? Every fetish is an erotic solution to a real life anxiety. Think of this as a psychological defense mechanism. When you sexualize something, you take control of it; it can't hurt you...or can it? You see femdom, especially erotic humiliation, is some hardcore psychological button pushing, and you know it. You feel it, as you jerk your dick & skirt on the edges of pleasure and pain. One moment you're in loser bliss, but think too hard or have a home truth sink in, and suddenly it's a different story, only causing you to have to sink deeper into humiliation to be able to deal. These fears we eroticize are often about changes we're afraid to make. Perversely though, sexualizing them only serves to medicate against this change, offering a solution & relief that means we have to take no action at all. And with femdom, ESPECIALLY verbal humiliation, they might even make you worse. As such, you probably shouldn't buy this. Just saying.