I think one of the ‘debilities of the male mind is this incessant focus on orgasm in sex but this is an illusion. The energy of desire flowing through your body, even in the absence of climax — as many women can experience in sex — is not something most men naturally learn, I think. This leaves you with one single option: Chastity Being locked then makes me want to shout as the desire becomes so overpowering and the denial so absolute. You can feel the pressure building. It is making me feel more vulnerable. Getting rid of all these feelings and emotions through release is not possible, so where will this energy come out instead? What in you will break or dissolve?