It’s not gay if all you think about is cock, right? It’s not gay if all that gets you hard is thinking of sucking and getting fucked by cock, right? Or maybe the idea and reality of picking up a guy at a bar and having him fuck you in the bathroom? Or maybe cruising a park at nighttime and fucking a perfect stranger in public? Is that gay? Is it gay to get a load in your ass from a stranger you met off an app in a hotel room? It’s not gay.