There should never be any excuses not to fuck yourself, no one wants to hear the words "i'm too tight" because this isn't an excuse.. You just need pushed, you just need teased, you just need to relax that sphincter to take that finger or two. I have some sluts that take things the size of my arm you when I hear little silly sluts saying they are too tight it really does make me laugh.. Let me encourage you into taking length as well as girth and hopefully one day you'll be taking the big boys not just your little finger..