Often, slaves feel as though they are being overly clingy, needy or a burden. One of the things a sub or any partner honestly, can do for bettering themselves is helping change their internal dialogue so they can provide much of their own validation. When you come to the table as a stable human wh is able to stop the ruminating, self loathing thoughts and work on changing the way they talk to themselves, you will feel better and more secure which will make you less emotionally draining to others. We go through how this change starts, some examples, and what progress looks like as well as the desired outcomes. Once you start, you'll notice changes not just to your own confidence and self, but also the people around you as well. It will make you a better partner, submissive, slave, and just general person that people will look up towards and emulate.