So often, fin-curious little toys hesitate to take the plunge because they worry the tiny offerings they're able to offer won't be but a drop in the bucket of the financially flush Goddesses they wish to worship. Now, that is the entirely wrong mindset. A selfish mindset. One indicative of an unchecked ego. True findom is not about your feelings. True findom is about sacrificing everything you possibly can, not because you seek praise or appreciation, but because anything you can contribute to a Goddess's gorgeous life is worth it. Release your ego and succumb to selfless sacrifice. Gender neutral.