Our large group of friends is on a trip together getting ready to go out when you come to tell me it's time to go you notice I am in an argument on the phone. We aren't close but I confess to you that my husband and I are going through things that are ultimately going to lead to divorce. I notice you checking me out and one thing leads to another, I just haven't had sex in so long...and I am basically divorced so it isn't technically cheating is it ??