You worry that your virginity is becoming an obstacle; you're at a point where you feel like you will always be a virgin; you can't imagine ever actually having sex, so you book into see a specialist. You could tell I was attractive from my photos; but seeing me in the flesh you become immediately flustered! Initially I have some encouraging words; however on hearing your situation I move forward with a more intense approach of radical acceptance; I want you to begin fetishizing your virginity. Ready to do exactly as I say? In your virginity becoming your fetish, I allow you to fantasize about the intimate experience you will never truly know. So begins a paradoxical journey of desire and restraint..