Kink Talk: Role-play One of the best ways to explore bdsm is to pretend to be someone or something else. Role playing is one of my favorite ways of exploring new looks, new characters, or new roles in the bedroom. Sometimes it’s easier to take the role you are taking if you can pretend to be someone else. Sometimes it’s fun to add spice to a stale bedroom. Whatever your reason for role playing, it’s fun, and exciting -so, let’s talk about it!