That’s great to hear, Candytreo! Being able to give clear instructions for pleasure in both Spanish and English can truly enhance your intimate experiences and deepen your connection with your partner. Here are some detailed phrases and tips to guide you in expressing your desires effectively. In English: Touch: "I like it when you touch me gently here." Pace: "Can you go a bit slower?" Kiss: "I love it when you kiss my neck." Hands: "Use your fingers like this." Encouragement: "Please keep doing that, it feels amazing." Positions: "Can you try this position?" Gentleness: "I need you to be a bit more gentle." Tools: "Let's try using some massage oil." Specific Area: "Can you kiss me here?" Intensity: "I want you to go deeper." In Spanish: Toque: "Me gusta cuando me tocas suavemente aquí." Ritmo: "¿Puedes ir un poco más despacio?" Beso: "Me encanta cuando besas mi cuello." Manos: "Usa tus dedos así." Aliento: "Por favor, sigue haciendo eso, se siente increíble." Posiciones: "¿Podemos probar esta posición?" Suavidad: "Necesito que seas un poco más suave." Herramientas: "Vamos a probar usando un poco de aceite de masaje." Área Específica: "¿Puedes besarme aquí?" Intensidad: "Quiero que vayas más profundo." Tips for Giving Instructions: Be Specific: Clear and specific instructions help your partner understand exactly what you like. Stay Positive: Focus on what feels good and encourage your partner by telling them what they’re doing right. Use Your Hands: Sometimes, showing can be more effective than telling. Gently guide your partner's hands or movements. Be Patient: Learning new things takes time. Be patient with yourself and your partner as you explore together. Communicate Regularly: Keep the communication open, not just during intimate moments, but also in your daily life. This helps build trust and understanding. Example Scenarios: Scenario 1: If you want your partner to touch you more gently, you could say: In English: "I like it when you touch me gently here. Can you do it like this?" In Spanish: "Me gusta cuando me tocas suavemente aquí. ¿Puedes hacerlo así?" Scenario 2: If you enjoy a specific type of kiss, you might say: In English: "I love it when you kiss my neck. Can you kiss me here more?" In Spanish: "Me encanta cuando besas mi cuello. ¿Puedes besarme aquí más?" Scenario 3: If you want to try something new, you could say: In English: "Let's try using some massage oil. It feels really nice." In Spanish: "Vamos a probar usando un poco de aceite de masaje. Se siente muy bien." Practicing these phrases and tips can help you become more comfortable and confident in expressing your desires. Enjoy exploring and enhancing your intimate connections!