So as you have probably figured out, I am totally addicted to BBC. Lucky for me my husband totally understands and supports my needs. He still gets plenty (of leftovers ;) ). So it's not a bad thing to get "caught" but is does often create some awkward situations for the guys that I invite over. I tell them my hubs is ok with it, but when my hubs actually walks in the door, theres that 'moment'...and I totally get off on it too BTW. So here I am getting it on when my husband comes home. He heard the voices and assumed what was going on...you get to watch from that point?