Your old bully is just sitting right on your couch when you get home. Ummmm. She's smiling. Don't you worry, she isn't all about petty bullying anymore. She's matured. It only makes sense to have more calculated sorts of blackmail scenarios. Initially, she wants your life - your wife, your home, your money. Then settles for her rent. What's it gonna be? Your wife finds out, she'll look at you forever as a weakling.