You are my boyfriend and I bring up your fantasy, "you know, the one where I cheat on you". I mention how I know you are hesitant about it but that I want to do it. I spend some time making my case while playing with my hair. We can mix it up however we want, that I can actually cheat and not tell you... but that I will always be honest when confronted. or you can be in on the details. condom or no condom... ;)